Nine Months || From My Heart

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Pregnancy. A word full of mixed feelings for me. When I first discovered that it was a state of living that I would now be entering into, I freaked. Broke down. Let’s just say, it was a big surprise. I had never looked forward to pregnancy and I certainly wasn’t planning to experience it as early as it came to me in life. And it was rough. The morning sickness, the heartburn, the insomnia… it wore on my body and challenged my emotions.

But greater than my fear//struggle with enduring pregnancy was, was my fear of motherhood. From what I could tell, motherhood was all-encompassing. Took over your life. Changed you in really big ways. Became everything you talked about and everything you did.

I suddenly watched mothers with both eyes wide open, tracking their every move and counting the times they brought up their children in a conversation. I scrolled through social media and compared the number of images that a woman put up of her child and of her husband. I was paranoid, to say the least. I was terrified of letting my entire identity become wrapped up in motherhood. I still wanted to be known as a wife, as a photographer, as a good friend, as a creative, as C h a r i s s a. This passion against having that identity of motherhood gave way for my Heavenly Father to ask, “but should you want to be identified by anything but Me alone?”. I quickly began to search the Word of God for definition and meaning of what it meant to be identified by Christ, to have my entire being wrapped up in being a child of God.

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“now if we are children, then we are heirs–heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory”

[Romans 8.17]

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“To be right with God the judge is a great thing, but to be loved and cared for by God the Father is a greater.”

― J.I. Packer

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P.S. I firmly believe that I never could have made it through the past nine months without the incredible love, support, and smiles of my husband.
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  1. Amanda

    January 20th, 2016 at 4:40 pm

    Darling, it IS all encompassing but in such an amazing way.

  2. Carolyn Fry

    January 20th, 2016 at 11:08 pm

    I know this has been a journey for you Charissa and you have been in my prayers. I love how God has gently walked with you through this time of transition and change. Being exactly who you are and living as the person God has created you to be is the best gift as a mom you can bring to your little one. You are going to be an awesome mother and I believe God has chosen you to be the mother of the new child because He knows you are who this child will need. We will keep you in prayer and I can’t wait to see you in action:) Lots of love and hugs…Auntie C

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